About a year ago, we began planning our trip to Mexico. My amazing mother in law arranged for us to fly to Mazatlan and be there with 2 of my sister in laws and their families, as well as her and Grandpa Hart. We were so excited! We kept the trip a secret, and while she and Grandpa Hart were tending our kids for a week last fall, they gave them one clue a night... a bottle of sunscreen, a paper airplane, "saltwater" taffy, maracas, a NYE party hat (because we were going to celebrate 2011 on the beach!). It was so fun for the kids to figure out what these clues meant with Grandma and Grandpa! (I think they needed a lot of helping putting the puzzle pieces together.) Anyway, we were so excited! Our Christmas plans were filled with plans for our big trip. Then, it snowed. In an effort to make it to Mexico, we woke our children at 2 a.m. and made it to the train station for our first leg of the trip, a train from Philly to Newark, NJ. This was the only easy part of the day! :) (and the only functioning and on-time train!) After a very long day of trying to figure out how or when we could make new arrangements since all flights were canceled, we returned to our home about 24 hours later, with tremendous appreciation for our kids.They were ROCKSTARS! (Also, tremendous appreciation to our Stake President and friend who drove us in the wee hours of the morning to the train station on slippery snow covered roads, and a dear friend who picked us up from the train station in the wee hours of the next morning!)

This is a list Dave made the day we came home of some interesting stats from our 24 hour
trip:
- people at the airport trying to reschedule all at the same time: over 4000
- times we attempted to board a train: over 30
- times we were unable to board, despite being 1st in line, due to aggressive/rude adults: over 15
- hours waiting in below 59F temperatures while prepared for Mazatlan Mexico temps: 12 out of 24 hours, some of it in sub-zero temps and 20+ mph winds (note that we were told by many people that the train was non-stop dropping us off within the airport - not even close to true)
- Broken-down trains: many
- time expected to get to airport (via reservation): 1 hour
- actual time to get to airport: 7.5 hours
- times escalators were used: 50+ per person
- number of "escalator mishaps": 5-6 (some involving toppling, another going up the whole way upside-down)
- Backpacks/Bags: 7
- Suitcases: 6 (5 carry-ons, one for checking)
- Snacks consumed: a weeks worth (including 14 cheese sticks)
- Clementines consumed: 14 (including 5 given away to others who were "starving")
- Train ticketing/boarding errors: many
- People heard yelling out of anger: well over 100
-Number of drug deals we watched "go down" in Penn station while trying to get a taxi to take us to the airport -- too many to count, very uncomfortable!
-one woman being hauled off by security after yelling at the Continental agent
- Foul language: of every kind, from all ages,
- Time either standing,walking, or sitting on cold floors: 12+ hours out of 24
- Acts of kindness done toward us, sometimes at considerable personal cost: many
- Observed acts of kindness done toward others: many
- Unobserved acts of kindness: countless
- Number of wonderful upbeat kids throughout the whole ordeal: 5 out of 5
- Resulting family-bonding and discovered mutual-respect: immeasurable
As we were leaving the train station in Philly, about 22 hours after we had first arrived there, I watched my children, all but Henry who was asleep in my arms (and boy howdy did they ache the next day from so much holding and carrying!), each with a backpack on their back and a suitcase in their hands, heading out into the cold cold snowy night, my heart swelled with love and pride and maybe some exhaustion. I nearly kissed the man who came to pick us up and drive us home! I want to remember that nobody melted down, that Lily fell asleep standing up on a train at about midnight, while a man sat on the seat next to her texting somone; that there is no place for blame or vulgarity, ever. I want to remember that a couple from Sweden risked missing a train, and their opportunity to get home, to make sure all of our children made it on a shuttle, and that a very gruff train conductor allowed us passage all the way from the airport to the station in Philly with the incorrect tickets... and oh, his train was so warm and soft and safe! .I want to remember that my Dad and Bev, brother and Mom were all trying to figure out how to help us, from Idaho and Utah! They made phone calls, Dad tried desperately to find us a hotel, a car, anything to get us out of that dang airport! Their love and support and help, even though there wasn't much to be done buoyed our spirits! I want to remember hearing Michael say to one of his sisters, "Let me carry your bag, you are tired, and it is heavy, and I'm your big brother!" I won't forget sweet Henry constantly grabbing my chin and putting my nose to his nose and saying "'Wet's go Home! I wanna go home now Momma!"
I can blog about all of this now because we've just returned from a fantastic week in Mexico.
Doesn't this picture just make you say ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. :)
Tomorrow, the other 347 pictures.